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		<title>Comment on How to Build a Loyal Blog Following by Keith Davis</title>
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		<dc:creator>Keith Davis</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Sep 2010 18:12:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dvorah / Kim
Took me a long time to realise that the comments didn&#039;t just come flooding in because you had written a &quot;fantastic post&quot;.
You are right that you have to get out there and become known, become part of the community and build up a &quot;loyal blog following&quot;.

I always reply to comments and keep the discussion going with the &quot;subscribe to comments&quot; plugin.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dvorah / Kim<br />
Took me a long time to realise that the comments didn&#8217;t just come flooding in because you had written a &#8220;fantastic post&#8221;.<br />
You are right that you have to get out there and become known, become part of the community and build up a &#8220;loyal blog following&#8221;.</p>
<p>I always reply to comments and keep the discussion going with the &#8220;subscribe to comments&#8221; plugin.<br />
<span class="cluv">Keith Davis recently posted..<a href="http://easypublicspeaking.co.uk/public-speaking-rapport/">Two way traffic</a><span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip 13636" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://www.relationshipmarketingcafe.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheartplus.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>Comment on Questions You Must Ask Yourself Before You Start Blogging by Julia M Lindsey</title>
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		<dc:creator>Julia M Lindsey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Aug 2010 00:28:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great tips for a new blogger.  there is so much to learn about blogging such as keywords, SEO, how to get  traffic, etc. My advice for a new blogger would be to start blogging. Dont try to figure it all out before you start. I have been blogging for a year and I still think I have more to learn about how to have an effective blog. If I had waited until I knew it all, I would have never started.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great tips for a new blogger.  there is so much to learn about blogging such as keywords, SEO, how to get  traffic, etc. My advice for a new blogger would be to start blogging. Dont try to figure it all out before you start. I have been blogging for a year and I still think I have more to learn about how to have an effective blog. If I had waited until I knew it all, I would have never started.<br />
<span class="cluv">Julia M Lindsey recently posted..<a href="http://www.ourlittlebooks.com/blog/2010/8/12/are-you-looking-for-a-great-mystery-shutter-island-book-revi.html">Are You Looking for a Great Mystery Shutter Island-Book Review</a><span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip -1" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://www.relationshipmarketingcafe.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>Comment on Questions You Must Ask Yourself Before You Start Blogging by Rob Berman</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rob Berman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Aug 2010 16:02:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good basic info to consider.  I met with a top rated blogger to run through my plan before launching.  The iterative process was helpful.  Get a blogging buddy.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good basic info to consider.  I met with a top rated blogger to run through my plan before launching.  The iterative process was helpful.  Get a blogging buddy.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Questions You Must Ask Yourself Before You Start Blogging by Keyuri Joshi (on the ball parent coach)</title>
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		<dc:creator>Keyuri Joshi (on the ball parent coach)</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Aug 2010 15:26:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is an excellent and timely post for me as I reconsider the purpose of my own blog.  So often, people just jump into a trend without knowing the key elements  that you point out.  Thanks!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is an excellent and timely post for me as I reconsider the purpose of my own blog.  So often, people just jump into a trend without knowing the key elements  that you point out.  Thanks!</p>
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		<title>Comment on How to Build a Loyal Blog Following by Sherryl Perry</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sherryl Perry</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Aug 2010 14:28:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great tips! I especially like the one about  staying focused. It would be so easy to stray from your topic but (as you point out) if you are blogging on a specific niche topic, that’s why your readers are there. And it’s true, it is a discussion. I love when someone leaves a comment on my blog and it’s an “AHA&quot; moment for me. They’ve said something that resonates so well with me that a new blog post immediately pops into my mind. All of your tips are great. 

Great guest post. Now, I’m off to check what else you’ve blogged about!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great tips! I especially like the one about  staying focused. It would be so easy to stray from your topic but (as you point out) if you are blogging on a specific niche topic, that’s why your readers are there. And it’s true, it is a discussion. I love when someone leaves a comment on my blog and it’s an “AHA&#8221; moment for me. They’ve said something that resonates so well with me that a new blog post immediately pops into my mind. All of your tips are great. </p>
<p>Great guest post. Now, I’m off to check what else you’ve blogged about!<br />
<span class="cluv">Sherryl Perry recently posted..<a href="http://keepupwiththeweb.com/to-blog-or-not-to-blog-that-is-the-question/">To Blog or NOT to Blog That is the Question</a><span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip 17226" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://www.relationshipmarketingcafe.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheartplus.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>Comment on Questions You Must Ask Yourself Before You Start Blogging by Catarina Alexon</title>
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		<dc:creator>Catarina Alexon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Aug 2010 11:34:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good points that people should take into account. 

Before I started blogging I started discussions in a lot of Linkedin groups asking:

Do you read blogs?
If so, what makes you read a blog?

A lot of people commented and the conclusion was that they majority reads a blog because of the author, topic or because they want to be entertained. In other words no matter how serious the topic, you have to write it in an easy going and entertaining way.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good points that people should take into account. </p>
<p>Before I started blogging I started discussions in a lot of Linkedin groups asking:</p>
<p>Do you read blogs?<br />
If so, what makes you read a blog?</p>
<p>A lot of people commented and the conclusion was that they majority reads a blog because of the author, topic or because they want to be entertained. In other words no matter how serious the topic, you have to write it in an easy going and entertaining way.<br />
<span class="cluv">Catarina Alexon recently posted..<a href="http://catarinasworld.com/http:/catarinasworld.com/is-ahmadinejad-provoking-a-strike-on-iran/">Is Ahmadinejad provoking a strike on Iran</a><span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip -1" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://www.relationshipmarketingcafe.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>Comment on Questions You Must Ask Yourself Before You Start Blogging by Kim DeYoung</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kim DeYoung</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Aug 2010 10:41:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi there Susan - when I started out blogging I thought more was better and set out for 4-5 times per week and it just wasn&#039;t realistic. 3 times a week feels manageable for anyone who&#039;s serious about their blogging efforts. The truth is whatever you choose to do, make it consistent. Thanks for your comment.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi there Susan &#8211; when I started out blogging I thought more was better and set out for 4-5 times per week and it just wasn&#8217;t realistic. 3 times a week feels manageable for anyone who&#8217;s serious about their blogging efforts. The truth is whatever you choose to do, make it consistent. Thanks for your comment.<br />
<span class="cluv">Kim DeYoung recently posted..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/metromomblog/~3/Vgd1XpRZkso/">How to Promote Your Teleseminar</a><span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip -1" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://www.relationshipmarketingcafe.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>Comment on Questions You Must Ask Yourself Before You Start Blogging by Kim DeYoung</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kim DeYoung</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Aug 2010 10:39:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Jeanette - thanks for your suggestion getting info about what your readers want. Google&#039;s keyword tool is a great one. Here&#039;s the link for anyone who&#039;d like easy access to it. https://adwords.google.com/select/KeywordToolExternal. 

Another idea is to post a survey to your list using Survey Monkey. www.SurveyMonkey.com 
Take care, 
Kim</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Jeanette &#8211; thanks for your suggestion getting info about what your readers want. Google&#8217;s keyword tool is a great one. Here&#8217;s the link for anyone who&#8217;d like easy access to it. <a href="https://adwords.google.com/select/KeywordToolExternal" rel="nofollow">https://adwords.google.com/select/KeywordToolExternal</a>. </p>
<p>Another idea is to post a survey to your list using Survey Monkey. <a href="http://www.SurveyMonkey.com" rel="nofollow">http://www.SurveyMonkey.com</a><br />
Take care,<br />
Kim</p>
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		<title>Comment on Questions You Must Ask Yourself Before You Start Blogging by Susan Oakes</title>
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		<dc:creator>Susan Oakes</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Aug 2010 07:25:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Interesting post and good points made. The tip about how regular you will post is important because I have seen many get very enthusiastic and try and blog 4 or 5 times a week. Then they realise the work involved and drop back or even not blog for a while which can affect regular readers&#039; expectation especially in the early days.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Interesting post and good points made. The tip about how regular you will post is important because I have seen many get very enthusiastic and try and blog 4 or 5 times a week. Then they realise the work involved and drop back or even not blog for a while which can affect regular readers&#8217; expectation especially in the early days.<br />
<span class="cluv">Susan Oakes recently posted..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/m4bmarketingblog/xIjV/~3/lq6XWvuR1pw/">Asking for Customer Feedback Does Not Have To Be Scary</a><span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip -1" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://www.relationshipmarketingcafe.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>Comment on Questions You Must Ask Yourself Before You Start Blogging by Sherryl Perry</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sherryl Perry</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Aug 2010 00:54:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great post! Those are excellent questions for anyone who is thinking about blogging. Even if someone starts blogging with no real intention of ever making any money at it, you know never know. You could be that one person who really connects with their readers and you may end up with a large enough readership that someone wants to advertise on your site. Answering your simple questions will provide a roadmap of sorts to give new bloggers direction. Sure as we find our blogging voices, we may decide to take a different route but if you know from the start what your topic is and who you’re writing for, you’re ahead of the game.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great post! Those are excellent questions for anyone who is thinking about blogging. Even if someone starts blogging with no real intention of ever making any money at it, you know never know. You could be that one person who really connects with their readers and you may end up with a large enough readership that someone wants to advertise on your site. Answering your simple questions will provide a roadmap of sorts to give new bloggers direction. Sure as we find our blogging voices, we may decide to take a different route but if you know from the start what your topic is and who you’re writing for, you’re ahead of the game.<br />
<span class="cluv">Sherryl Perry recently posted..<a href="http://keepupwiththeweb.com/to-blog-or-not-to-blog-that-is-the-question/">To Blog or NOT to Blog That is the Question</a><span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip 17226" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://www.relationshipmarketingcafe.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheartplus.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>Comment on Questions You Must Ask Yourself Before You Start Blogging by Jeannette Paladino</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jeannette Paladino</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Aug 2010 00:20:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>One other tip I would offer:  find out if the readers you want to attract are interested in what you want to write about this.  You can do that by using the Google Ad-Words:  Key Tool to search for the key words that readers are using in their searches.  It does no good to write about abc when people are searching for xyz, no matter how good your content is.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One other tip I would offer:  find out if the readers you want to attract are interested in what you want to write about this.  You can do that by using the Google Ad-Words:  Key Tool to search for the key words that readers are using in their searches.  It does no good to write about abc when people are searching for xyz, no matter how good your content is.<br />
<span class="cluv">Jeannette Paladino recently posted..<a href="0">Response cached until Thu 12 @ 1:09 GMT (Refreshes in 23.86 Hours)</a><span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip -1" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://www.relationshipmarketingcafe.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>Comment on 12 Success Principles for Achieving Your Dreams by Accomplishing More in Less Time by Mary Anne Nagy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mary Anne Nagy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 08 Aug 2010 21:11:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>D&#039;vorah - I am glad I found this series and your blog.  I, too, have been doing something similar to this for some time and find it really helps change my focus onto the positive rather than the negatives in life.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>D&#8217;vorah &#8211; I am glad I found this series and your blog.  I, too, have been doing something similar to this for some time and find it really helps change my focus onto the positive rather than the negatives in life.<br />
<span class="cluv">Mary Anne Nagy recently posted..<a href="http://maryannenagy.com/2010/08/are-you-a-crab-in-the-bucket/">Are You A Crab In the Bucket</a><span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip 12054" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://www.relationshipmarketingcafe.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheartplus.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>Comment on Facebook Fanpage Tips For The Small Business Owner by Lisbeth Tanz</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lisbeth Tanz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Jul 2010 15:22:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Jessica, very practical tips to get a FB page going. The upcoming changes to sidebars on fan pages is frustrating, but I guess that keeps us trying new things.

Thanks for a great post!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jessica, very practical tips to get a FB page going. The upcoming changes to sidebars on fan pages is frustrating, but I guess that keeps us trying new things.</p>
<p>Thanks for a great post!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Facebook Fanpage Tips For The Small Business Owner by Jessica Swanson</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jessica Swanson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Jul 2010 13:45:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks Melanie! As always you are too kind:) And, yes interaction is key! It&#039;s pretty darn hard to build relationships if there isn&#039;t any interaction!

As for FBML...it IS very technical. That&#039;s why I often suggest looking into a low-priced company that can do the tech-side for you. http://www.fanpageengine.com is a great place to start!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks Melanie! As always you are too kind:) And, yes interaction is key! It&#8217;s pretty darn hard to build relationships if there isn&#8217;t any interaction!</p>
<p>As for FBML&#8230;it IS very technical. That&#8217;s why I often suggest looking into a low-priced company that can do the tech-side for you. <a href="http://www.fanpageengine.com" rel="nofollow">http://www.fanpageengine.com</a> is a great place to start!</p>
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